Why Feeling Too Ordinary Is Your Real Hidden Strength
“I need to change my lifestyle financially” is a line I hear from people again and again. It usually comes with a second, quieter sentence right behind it: “but I’m not techie, so where would I even start?”
Here’s the bit nobody tells you. The very thing you think disqualifies you is very often the thing that makes people trust you first.
Most advice in this market assumes you need to look like an expert before anyone will listen to you. Polished. Confident. Ahead of the pack. So if you feel ordinary, or behind, or not techie enough, it’s easy to conclude you should wait until you’ve caught up before you start.
I want to challenge that, because I built my whole online business on the opposite idea.
The Belief That Holds Most People Back
The common belief goes something like this: you need qualifications, a background in marketing, and a good head for technology before an online business is really for you.
I left school with none of that. I spent 51 years cutting hair, not writing sales copy or building websites. I’m dyslexic, and anything with a steep learning curve puts me off just as fast as it might put you off.
By that belief, I should never have started.
But the belief is wrong. Most people in this market are 45 and up, comfortable enough but stuck, worried about what happens if they can’t work. I think they already sense the belief is wrong. They just haven’t been given permission to trust the feeling.
What Happened When I Switched Systems
Not long ago I had to move my whole email system from one platform to another, over to eShowcase. It now handles my hosting, my list, and my pages.
It threw me right out of my comfort zone. I hate asking for help, if I’m honest, and anything techie makes me slow.
I’m slow with anything techie, but I’m getting a little better each day.
Giving up never crossed my mind, and the support I received was excellent once I asked for it. That’s the part that matters here, not the platform itself.
Being someone who struggles with the techie side isn’t a footnote to my story. It’s the whole reason people like me, further along in life and not naturally comfortable with technology, seem to trust what I write. I’m not describing a system from a distance. I’m describing it from inside the same struggle they’re having right now.
Why Not Techie Enough Is An Advantage, Not A Gap
Think about who you’re trying to reach. Somebody 45 or older, earning a decent salary. They wonder how they’d support their family if they got ill, and whether their pension will really stretch far enough.
They are not looking for someone who makes it look effortless. Effortless is exactly what makes people give up, because it tells them the wrong story: that if it’s hard for you, you’re doing it wrong.
What that reader needs is proof. Someone ordinary, someone not techie enough, someone who felt exactly the doubt they’re feeling now, still found a way through.
Other articles I have shared recently talk more about this exact shift, and it’s worth reading a few of them if this idea is new to you, because they build on it from a few different angles.
Once you stop hiding the thing you think is a weakness, it starts doing work for you. It becomes the reason a stranger reads your email instead of deleting it. It becomes the reason they believe you when you say something is simple, because you’ve proven you needed it to be simple too.
How To Put This Into Practice
You don’t need a dramatic confession. You need honesty in the right place, said once, plainly.
Name the thing you’ve been quietly apologising for. Not techie enough. New to writing. Older than most people starting out. Whatever it is for you.
Say why it exists, without excuses. Then say who it helps, because it will help someone.
Each day another step is enough. You don’t need to solve the whole business in one sitting. And you don’t need to hide the parts that are still a work in progress while you do it.
No one’s perfect, and pretending otherwise is exactly what makes so much marketing in this space feel hollow. Ask what you do not understand. Keep believing in yourself while you find out.
Where This Leaves You
If you take one thing from this, let it be this: stop treating your starting point as something to apologise for. It’s very often the reason the right person will listen to you at all.
You don’t need to be techie. You need to be honest about where you are, and willing to take the next small step from there.
If you do not try, you will get what you have always got.
For anyone who wants a clear way to see what building an online business in information publishing can look like, without pretending you need years of experience first, Nick James put together Six Figures A Year In Information Publishing as a clear, accessible starting point. It walks through the thinking behind building this kind of business from very little. That’s exactly where most people reading this are standing right now. If you want to go further than this article alone, it’s worth a look.
Whatever you’ve been quietly hiding about your own starting point, it might be worth more out in the open than tucked away.
Best regards
Philip
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